The big ten.

Dear Jack,

Oh my goodness, when did you get so big? You're almost a toddler, and we're having a hard time believing it! This time next month, we'll be sending out invitations to your first birthday already. When did that happen, Jack?! We've had another fun & exciting month with you. You're sleeping through the night like a rockstar (Hallelujah!) You take 2 naps a day, 1 short and 1 long, though not always at the same times (sometimes the long one is in the morning, other times it's in the afternoon.) And the greatest part of all is that we can put you in bed without a single fuss from you! You've accepted your fate and just snuggle into your pillow with your bear (yes, a pillow...shhh, don't tell the pediatrician!) You started waving this month, which is so sweet! You're also giving high fives...kinda. If someone holds up their hand, you give them one finger. Then if they offer up just a finger, you give your whole hand. It's pretty darn cute to watch! And you're now the proud owner of tooth #3, something we've been waiting for quite a while. Here are some of your favorite and not-so-favorite things this month:

Favorites
Snacks - You love food so, so, so much. You'll eat absolutely anything at any time. And we don't really know how it happened, but you're already as demanding of snacks as your siblings! If you see the big kids with a snack, you whine and cry and just plain freak out until they share or until we give you your own snack. It's a good thing puffs are super low-calorie!
Scavenging in the kitchen - Your number one pastime is exploring the kitchen floor for even more snacks. You aren't exactly the cleanest eater, so there are always dropped treasures underneath your high chair. We try our hardest to keep you out of there, but you're pretty fast these days! (We know what you're thinking: "Why don't you just keep the floor clean, Mom & Dad?" Physically impossible, buddy.)
The Bathtub - Every time you crawl up the stairs, you beeline for the bathtub. You would spend your entire day in there if you could. You have the greatest time splashing around and playing with all the bath toys. You've gotten to take a bath in the big tub (instead of your little blue tub) with your siblings a few times and love it!
Books - You have developed a love for books this month, something that makes us very happy! While you're still at the 'plays with book' versus 'reads books' stage, we know this is just the first step in becoming a bookworm like your siblings. If we tell you to go get a book, you'll crawl over, pick one, and either start flipping through it or bring it to us. Reading books with you before bedtime is one of Mommy's favorite times of the day. 
Walking with assistance - You are soooo close to walking on your own and so eager to do it! You love to push toys and walk behind them or hold our hands while you toddle around the house.
Joe - It has taken a while, but you're finally a big fan of Joe! He has always been a little too rambunctious and wild for you. But now that you're bigger and much more playful, you don't mind how insane he is! You like sitting next to him in the playroom, watching him play with his cars or Legos while you eat them. And he has gotten much better at entertaining you when we need him to. This is just the beginning of what will undoubtedly be quite a friendship!

Not-so-favorites
Being told "No" - You've reached that lovely stage of babyhood where you get into EVERYTHING. You're strong and a good climber, so nothing is safe. While you don't seem to consciously be testing boundaries, you're starting to do things that just aren't safe (like climbing on the fireplace or pulling cords) so we tell you "no" and move you to something else. You do not appreciate the redirection! You're very smart and know what you want so you go right back for it. Each time we say "no, Jack" you get quite upset!
Car rides - You just downright hate riding in the car. No matter how many toys we give you, you start screaming the moment we start to strap you in. You're even arching your back when we try to buckle you, too. (Word to the wise: that's a game you will lose every time.) It seems to be a tiny bit better if the big kids are in the car with us (but boy are you sad when we drop them off at school!) We usually just give you a pacifier, pile toys in your lap, and pray you'll calm down.

You are quite a chatty little boy! You babble all day long. In fact, if it gets quiet, it means one of 2 things: you found a pacifier or you're up to no good. You are constantly trying to climb the stairs (one of your most favorite things to do) so it's the first place we look if it's too quiet. You're starting to mimic sounds, trying to form the sounds you hear with your mouth. For example, we're trying to teach you the sign for milk. Every time we make a bottle for you, we point to it and say "milk" while making the sign. While you pick up your fist to copy the sign, you put your lips together like you're trying to make the "mmm" sound. You still say "mama" and "dada", though not directed at either one of us. And you're starting to say what sounds like "hi" on occasion. It's so exciting to be able to communicate with you!

It's really not possible to explain how much of a joy you have been in our lives these past 10 months. You just make everything so much better. Mommy tells you every day, "I couldn't love you more", and that's definitely the case for both of us. We love you to pieces!

Love,
Mommy & Daddy

Mr. Jack.

This happy boy has officially been out of my belly longer than he was in it. While my pregnancy with him felt like it lasted forever, these past 9+ months with him have absolutely raced by. It has been one hell of an adventure so far!

The leap from 1 to 9 is pretty astonishing. When was he ever that little?!

Also, I cropped out most of the thighs from these - you're welcome, 11-year-old Jack.

Oh and also, it makes me sad how inconsistent the lighting is in these. Thanks to our house, the Land of No Natural Lighting, these are taken in his nursery (which catches the afternoon sun) at the mercy of the weather gods, who are not always kind to us.

Three quarters.

 

Dear Jack,

 

Hey there, big boy! It has been another fun month with you! Sadly, you spent half of it under the weather (a fever on Christmas Eve/Day that morphed into a terrible cold & then a solid week of unexplained throwing up multiple times a day...no fun for any of us!!) But you've grown in so many ways despite all of that. After losing a pound while sick, you ended the month at 24 lbs 7 oz. You're 30 inches long, putting you in the 98th percentile for both height and weight (no surprise there!) Although you adore eating real food, you're still drinking 4 bottles a day - we are so grateful that you have always been so accepting of formula. Though your sleep patterns were rocky during your illness, we've ended this month with much better nights & naps. You always sleep on your belly with your hands at your sides - so sweet! The bad habits we developed of bringing you to our bed in the wee hours of the night, rocking you to sleep, & holding you through naps are slowing vanishing. We've established a new bedtime routine for you that includes books on the couch, a few songs in your rocking chair, & then putting you in bed awake - while you're not totally on board with it yet, you're making serious progress! Here are a few things you love (and don't seem to love so much) this month:

 

Favorites

Table food - All month long, we've been introducing you to lots of new foods. Buddy, you haven't met a food you don't like! You are in love! Any time we're in the kitchen, you crawl in & whine until we give you something to eat. You get so, so excited when we start carrying you over to your high chair because you know you'll get to eat! You join us at the table for each meal, smiling your way through your siblings' prayers & happily accepting any little bites we're willing to pass your way. Some of your favorites include: pancakes/waffles, peas, broccoli, blueberries, peaches, Cheerios, & toast. The pediatrician gave us the go-ahead to let you try (almost) anything, so this month will be fun for you!

The playroom - Any chance you get, you crawl right on into the playroom with your siblings. Their toys are just more exciting, plus you love being near them! You usually head straight to Joe's cars or the big Lego bin.

Itsy Bitsy Spider - This has long been one of your favorite songs. Your cute little smile gets even brighter when we start to sing this song with you. You haven't mastered the motions yet, but you love when we help you do them.

Being outside - You're a big fan of being outside. You seem very calm out there, even with the cold weather we've had. You especially love to swing on our playground! Considering you should be walking by then, this Spring will be a blast for you!

Not-so-favorites
Socks - You've developed a very annoying habit of pulling your socks off and eating them. We are constantly trying to find your socks so your piggies aren't cold! And, when we do find them, they're usually wet. Unfortunately, we've got several cold months left, so this is going to be a game we play for a while.
Being left out - You're pretty obsessed with your siblings, so it's not surprising to us that you get very sad when you don't get to do something with them. For example, you often cry when they get out of the van at preschool. You threw your first full-blown tantrum this month! Mommy let the big kids go out in the backyard to play on a warmer day (warmer being about 40 degrees.) It was just a little too cold for you, so we stayed inside & watched them out the back windows. Oh boy, you were mad you didn't get to play, too! You would look out the window & start bawling, then get distracted by a toy & calm down, then look outside & start crying again. After a while, you just stood at the window crying, nose pressed up against the glass. You hate missing all the fun!
Diaper changes - You are the ultimate wiggle worm during diaper changes now! Phew! It's such a battle to get you changed.

We're so proud of how smart & independent you are. You will happily play by yourself for a long time, crawling around & exploring. You're getting braver every day, conquering milestones like climbing stairs and cruising along furniture (seriously, kid, when did you get so old?!) We can't even believe that the next milestone you'll meet is walking!! You started saying "Mama" this month, & it's the sweetest sound in the world! You still love your Mama somethin' fierce, but your bond with Daddy is getting stronger every day. You light up when he gets home from work (& get pretty vocal if he doesn't come say hello to you right away!)

Everything about you is precious, from the way you cuddle up to us on the couch to the way you shyly bury your head in Mommy's shoulder around strangers. You are by far the calmest of our kids (for now!) You are the absolute sweetest little guy & our love for you is overwhelming!

Love,
Mommy & Daddy

The middle child.

Oh, Joe. This kid is a crack-up. I never want to forget all of the quirky, hilarious things about this crazy 3-year-old, so I thought it was time for a Joe update.

- We absolutely, completely underestimate this kid. Unlike his big sister, he's much more interested in ramming cars together or building a dinosaur with Legos than he is in learning how to write or doing a puzzle. But when we can get him to slow down long enough to practice writing his name or figure out a puzzle, he nails it. He's really smart if you can get him to stop moving for 5 seconds to talk to you. And he has a huge vocabulary that surprises the heck out of me. He'll throw out "appropriate" or "frustrated" and I just die (mostly because it comes out "appwopwiate" and "fwustwated" with his precious little voice.)
- He has a ridiculous obsession with the color red. The love runs deep. When given the choice, he'll choose red anything over any other color 10 times out of 10. All of his school projects that come home are red. Red snowman? Yep. All red Christmas tree? You bet. His favorite clothes are the red ones - a red fire truck shirt & red Superman shirt, red sweatpants, even red underwear. He has a red winter coat, red gloves & hat, new red shoes...he looks like a walking strawberry on cold days. His love of red is so extreme that he refused to play one of his new board games he got for Christmas because there wasn't a red player. We're not sure how this even started, but it's been going strong for months now with no end in sight.

- He comes up with the weirdest names for things/people; "Bony" is currently the name of choice for just about any character he dreams up. Though he still sleeps with a zoo of stuffed animals in his bed at night, his main 2 squeezes are his duck, which he named...wait for it..."Bony", and his puppy dog, which now goes by "Igor". (Your guess is as good as mine on that one, folks.) Recently, he's added his stuffed Superman to the mix, along with a bunny that he named "Superman". Weirdo.
- He has become very attached to me lately. I have no idea what triggered it, but it first started mid-December. I picked him up from school one day and his teachers told me he had been inconsolable for almost an hour, telling them he just missed me. There had been no warning of it & I still can't figure out what brought it on. Ever since then, he tells me all the time that he's going to miss me - at school, during nap or bed, if I run an errand without them. After Christmas break, I knew going back to school was going to be a struggle for him, so we started talking about the return days in advance. At the mention of school, he immediately started getting anxious & saying he'd miss me. I sent a picture of him & I in his backpack so he can look at it anytime he misses me at school; it seems to still be working!

- He has been 100% potty trained since the fall, which is 200% awesome. It's in the Top Five of my greatest accomplishments in life so far. I thought potty training that boy was going to break me for good. But some kind of magical bathroom fairy came along and POOF! Done. He's in underwear full-time, even overnight. MAGIC, you guys.
- He's very into superheroes at the moment, specifically Superman (it's the red cape.) He's getting better at identifying the different characters. When the kids put on dress-ups, he always chooses his Ironman mask & cape and runs around "saving" everyone. He tells me that he & his buddies play superheroes on the playground at school - he likes to pretend he's Super Joe. He has already determined that his 4th birthday party (yes, the one that is 7 months away) will be a Superman birthday.

- He doesn't listen, like, ever. He's just too busy playing to listen when I tell him things. We have to really make sure he's focused on us before we give him instructions or there's a slim chance he'll actually follow through. I often say to him "Joe, what did I just say?" to be sure he really heard me.
- It takes him forever to get to sleep at night. He still takes a nap every day (praise Jesus!) but that makes it harder for him to fall asleep at bedtime. He lies in bed talking to his animals, kicking the wall, & making funny noises. Thankfully, Brooke falls right to sleep and isn't bothered by his antics. He sneaks downstairs about 50% of the nights with one of a million excuses for why he's up. Most of the time, he gets shooed back to bed with the threat of his animals being taken away. But sometimes his excuse is so hilarious/random/adorable that we end up laughing at him. Tonight's excuse? "We need to check behind the dresser because I think one of my cars got lose-ded (lost) back there." Last night's? "I need something in my bed to help remind me of you so I don't miss you while I sleep." It's pretty hard to get mad at that.

- He has great manners, almost always remembering to say "please" & "thank you". He very randomly will thank us for small things that we gave him or did. For example, while eating a snack he'll say "Mommy, thank you for buying me red socks because red is my favorite color." Or he'll tell me mid-afternoon "Mommy, thank you for making me oatmeal for breakfast this morning." It makes me pretty darn proud to see how genuinely grateful his little heart is.
- He has the World's Best Smile and I just love him to pieces.

A few months ago, Joe brought this book (Five Little Monkeys Take a Bath) to us and insisted he could read it. It has become his favorite book and insists on "reading" it to us multiple times a week. It's pretty adorable!

Five & fabulous.

She is one of the most spirited children I've ever met. My answer for "what's one word to describe your child?" is always "passionate", in both good and bad ways. She gets incredibly excited about everything. The anticipation of future events is almost too much for her to handle sometimes. She just loves experiencing life! On the same note, she can get incredibly upset about the littlest things. And she has a very hard time recovering when she is sad or angry (something she gets from both of her parents - letting go is not our strong suite.)

She has this insane memory that continually blows our minds. She remembers the most minute details from years ago (and at only 5 years old, 'years ago' was when she was only 2 or 3!) She can tell you what she wore/ate/saw/did at pretty much any past event. She also vividly remembers anything you've ever said and is not afraid to call you out on it.

She loves school and everything related to it (especially homework!) She really loves to read. She picked up reading so fast that we're having a hard time keeping up with her! My mom picked out a 75-page Dick & Jane book for her to help with sight words in the Spring, and she can now read the whole thing cover to cover. And she's really interested in spelling and writing words. She'll say to us "Can I go play with J-A-C-K?"

She has an appreciation for food that is adult-like. She will try just about anything and eats just about everything. And because she watches so much of the Food Network (see #3 below), she now uses many food adjectives when she eats. It's not uncommon for us to hear something is "so creamy" or "perfectly seasoned". On the other hand, she is incredibly complimentary of my cooking, proving her palate is still very childish.

She's hilarious and full of attitude and silly and sassier than your average 5-year-old. Her imagination is active and full of adventure. She is a fabulous big sister and an amazing daughter. We are so, so lucky to have her as ours.

Happy birthday, Brooke Mary.


Here's her yearly birthday interview. Just before her birthday party, I remembered that we hadn't done it yet. I figured we wouldn't have time and would just do it the tomorrow. Oh no, that was not acceptable. She remembered and was sure to remind me we needed to do it before bed. A memory like a steel trap, I tell ya.

Brooke's Birthday Interview: Year 5
1. What is your favorite animal? A bunny.
2. What is your favorite food? Chicken & rice. And spaghetti & meatballs.
3. What is your favorite show? I'm gonna pick 2: The Pioneer Woman & Doc McStuffins. (The Pioneer Woman is a cooking show on the Food Network. She's an aspiring chef so she loves to watch the FN!)
4. What is your favorite color? Pink, purple, and silver.
5. Who is your best friend? Molly, Claire, and Hannah.
6. What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Oatmeal.
7. What is your favorite restaurant? Chipotle...and LaRosa's.
8. What is your favorite book? Pinkalicious
9. What is your favorite song? Jingle Bells
10. What is your favorite toy? Last year, I said my video game, so this year I'm picking Ariel dress-up.
11. What is your favorite snack? Cereal with milk. (She gets this from her Mama. It's the perfect snack!)
12. What do you like to sleep with at night? Honey Bunny and Bunny.
13. What kind of birthday party are you going to/did you have? A Frozen birthday. (And yes, she sang this answer.) 

8 months.

Dear Jack,

Phew! It's been absolutely exhausting trying to keep up with you this month, kiddo! You are hardly ever still anymore. You went from barely crawling to dashing across the house within a matter of days at the beginning of the month. And you've figured out how to pull yourself up to your feet, which just makes you seem so old to us! You are so happy and playful with your newfound mobility. You're still growing bigger and stronger every day, up to 23 lbs 10 oz. Mommy nursed you for the very last time on Christmas morning plus you're eating more & more table foods, so we're curious to see how these diet changes affect your growth next month. Between that & all the calories you're burning by crawling, we're sure the weight gain is going to slow down drastically! Here's what's been keeping you so happy (and occasionally making you sad) this month:

Favorites
The fireplace - As soon as you started crawling, you were drawn to our fireplace like a magnet. The hearth is very low, the perfect height for you to put your toys. And you've tried climbing up onto the bricks on more than one occasion. One of your most favorite things to do is pull the foam edge guard off, something that drives your parents crazy!
Standing - You figured out how to stand up on your own this month and you haven't looked back! You pull yourself up to a stand as often as you can. You got a couple new toys for Christmas that promote even more standing, so you're about to get a lot of practice.
Balls - We moved Joe's basketball hoop and all of his balls to the basement. Every once in a while, he'll sneak a ball or two upstairs, and you have a blast with it! You unintentionally roll it across the room and then crawl after it. We'll keep a few upstairs for you from now on.
Chewing on things - Every single thing you touch goes into your mouth. There's nothing you won't - and haven't - chewed on! We're certain you've got more teeth on the way with how you're chewing your way through life. We joke all the time about not needing a dog to clean up the floors because we have a Jack. We're constantly fishing dropped food out of your mouth - puffs, old peas or blueberries, etc. We're trying hard to keep up with all your messy siblings' dropped food, but you're faster than us!
Tissue paper - With the holidays in full force all month, we quickly learned how much you love tissue paper! You love to wildly wave it in the air, delighting in the crinkly sound it makes. You also like to rip it into tiny pieces which then, surprise surprise, make their way into your mouth.

Not-so-favorites
Getting into Your Car Seat - You have already learned the art of back-arching when we try to buckle you into your car seat. Even when presented with toys, you still fuss each time we do it. 90% of the time your whining ends as soon as we turn on the car and get rolling. Having your big sister in the back seat to look at helps, too. She helps make you happy by talking to you and making silly faces.
Being Put into Bed - We still put you to sleep before laying you in bed, a bad habit that we need to fix soon! This will likely be quite a battle as you scream if we put you in there before you're in a deep sleep. Now that you can stand up, we've had to lower your mattress pretty far down, so stealthily laying you in bed is almost impossible. You often wake up in the transition, immediately flip onto your belly and get onto your feet, screaming the entire time for us to pick you back up.
Anyone other than Mommy - Oh Jack, you sure are a Mama's Boy! Your attachment to Mommy is getting worse and worse. If you're even the tiniest bit fussy, it gets exponentially worse if you see or hear me. While I love how much you love me, it does often make it very difficult to get things done (especially when you're sick!!)

One of the most exciting parts of this month was celebrating your very first Christmas with you! We introduced you to all of our family traditions that we have leading up to Christmas - decorating the tree, St. Nick's night, Breakfast with Santa (you only cried at the very end!), the Festival of Lights at the zoo, etc. You lived in Christmas shirts & PJ's all month & looked adorable! You were great with the decorations (mostly because they were out of your reach) and didn't pull down too many ornaments off the tree - we put soft, unbreakable ones at the bottom for you. Unfortunately, when Christmas Eve finally rolled around, you woke up with a high fever. You spent your first Christmas Eve & Christmas Day with a 102 degree fever. You were in pretty good spirits, all things considered, though you wouldn't let us put you down to nap or sleep even for one minute. Because you've been such a sweet boy these past 8 months, Santa brought you a xylophone, a sports toy, and a Batman ride-on car. Though you had to miss a little bit of our family celebrations because of it (which completely shattered Mommy's heart), you still had a pretty awesome 1st Christmas!  

Mommy & Daddy are so smitten with you, Jack! Daddy is pretty thrilled that you started saying "Dada" this month. And Mommy is so darn proud that you can sign "more" and clap (you just did both of these for the first time a couple of days ago!) Every day with you brings us so much joy! We love you so much!

Love,
Mommy & Daddy

Day Twelve: Christmas Eve

Day 12 of the 12 Days of the Reeders' Christmas...

Christmas Eve did not quite go as planned this year, but it was still a very fun day. Jack woke up with a fever of 102 and spent the whole day battling the fever. Thankfully, we hadn't made any big plans for the day, so extra snuggle time was possible (he didn't let us put him down to sleep the entire day.) With Daddy home, we were still able to do fun, festive things with the big kids. We made salt dough ornaments to pass out to family and painted them later in the day. We made chocolate chip and M&M cookies for Santa (Mrs. Claus told us these were his favorites - with a sick baby, I was grateful his favorites were so easy to make!) We spent the day at home with our sick boy, watching Christmas shows and playing games. Before bed, the big kids snacked on cookies and hot chocolate, then we all snuggled on the couch to read Christmas books. Finally, the kids picked out cookies for Santa and a carrot for Dasher (the kids and Daddy had been tracking Santa on Daddy's phone and saw a note that Dasher was especially hungry.) The big kids were in bed by 9 but had a very hard time falling asleep - the excitement was overwhelming! While I didn't make it to Midnight Mass this year thanks to a very fussy baby who only wanted his mama, it was a great day...for most of us. (Jack's fever hit 103, not a happy camper!)

This was taken right before bed. It's not easy to see, but there are cookies, milk, and a carrot behind Jack's head. Jack was a trooper and took a great picture for us, despite feeling pretty crummy.