Thursday, November 27, 2014

Month seven.

Dear Jack,

So many exciting things have happened this month! You are officially on the move! You crawled for the very first time a couple of days ago. You've been scooting backwards for a while now, but never could go forward to get where you wanted to be. Then you started rocking up on your hands and knees, but any attempt to move forward resulted in a belly flop. Finally this week, you've discovered that picking up those hands and knees helps you actually move. While you haven't really taken off just yet, we imagine you'll be crawling across the room in no time (time to re-baby-proof!) The other exciting and helpful trick you've learned is how to sit yourself up from your back or belly. This discovery forced us to lower your crib mattress - a tell-tale sign that you're not our little baby anymore! You're also drinking from a sippy cup now, which means you're even closer to toddlerhood. And finally, you have teeth! Hooray! Your first 2 little teeth finally popped through this week. Your gums are super swollen & your drooling is incessant, so we're sure a couple more are on the way! Here are a few of the things you're into (and not) these days:

Favorites
Eating - Boy, do you love to eat! You get so excited (borderline impatient) when we put you in your high chair. You get downright giddy if you see the Puffs container! You stare us down and get grumpy if we're eating without you. Much to our delight, you've mastered the pincer grasp and can feed yourself now. This is hugely helpful, as we can give you little bites to snack on while we get your cereal/purees ready. You have never turned down a meal, big man!
Carbs - You've yet to meet a carb you didn't like. Your favorites seem to be plain pancakes and waffles (just wait until you can dip them in syrup!) You love to chew on a pretzel rod. You've also had & enjoyed your first bites of Skyline crackers :)
Standing - You love love love to stand. You'd stand night & day if we'd let you. The problem is you're not quite steady on your feet, so we can't let you do it unless we're right next to you. You'll likely be pulling yourself up to a stand all on your own within the month.
Clapping - You think it's funny when people clap. Though you haven't mastered it yourself just yet, you like to grab Mommy's hands and help me clap.
Playing Peek-a-Book - This is still a favorite of yours, only now you like to join in the fun. If we put a burp cloth or towel over your face, you love to pull it down & reveal yourself. You'll even grab for it and try to do it yourself. It's too cute!

Not-so-favorites
Strangers - This still hasn't changed - you still hate strangers. If someone tries to talk to you or get you to smile, they have about a 25% chance of success, a 25% chance of getting a blank stare, & a 50% chance of tears.
Avocados & Watermelon - You will gladly accept most of the fruit and veggie purees we've given you. And you're even starting to take to the chunks of them you've tried, like peaches, peas, and bananas (though you still haven't decided how you feel about bananas.) But the 2 that have been met with serious gagging and foul faces have been avocados and watermelon. Considering Mommy doesn't like either of these and didn't touch them once when I was pregnant with you, I'm not totally surprised. (They say a baby starts to develop his taste preferences in the womb, which means you're going to love ice cream and cereal!)
Getting out of the Bathtub - You have finally fallen in love with bath time. You have some monster truck bath toys that you like to chew on, but mostly you like to just make waves. You splash like crazy & are always so surprised when water splashes your face. Even though your teeth chatter every single time you bathe (no matter how warm the water is), you still love it. Until it's time to get out, that is. You get so angry when we take you out and wrap you up in your dinosaur towel. We try to get you dry and warm as fast as possible, but you still scream at us for being the Fun Police.

You're growing up so fast, Jack-Jack. We've had to seriously cut back on nursing because Mommy's milk supply is low (plus, you're too distracted!) We're down to nursing only 3 times a day, with a couple of bottles mixed in, too. You eat 3 meals a day on top of that, so that belly of yours is full! It's helping you sleep better. You're up & down a lot at the beginning of the night, but you usually fall into a deep sleep by 12 or 1 a.m. and sleep until 7 or 8 a.m. (or whenever your big siblings wake you up by being too loud.)

You are the absolute sweetest little boy. You smile when you see Mommy or Daddy across the room, which makes our hearts melt. You prefer to fall asleep up on our shoulder now, & you often wrap those chubby little arms around our neck. This is the best feeling in the world! We just love you to pieces, Fuzzy Wuzzy! (You can thank your very tall hair for this new nickname!)

Love,
Mommy & Daddy


Wednesday, November 26, 2014

What I'm really thankful for...

Family. Friends. Good health. A warm home. Fresh food.

Of course I'm thankful for all of those things. It goes without saying. But what am I really thankful for this year?

I'm thankful for Target. Oh, sweet Target. It's like a casino for me - I lose all track of time & money in there. It's nearly impossible for me to get out of there in less than an hour and spending less than $50. But I don't even care, because they just have ALL THE THINGS. Seriously, everything - things I need, things I didn't know I needed, things I don't need but you just never know when you might need them so you better grab them because they're in the Dollar Spot for crying out loud. All the things, you guys.

I'm thankful that my 4.5 year old loves to be a helper and rarely complains about it, especially when it comes to helping with the baby. It's so helpful to be able to say "Brooke, will you go talk to Jack?" when he gets fussy and buy myself a couple minutes to finish making lunch or folding laundry. She is eager to do jobs, too. Though she'd rather jump on a pile of Legos barefoot than clean up her own toys, she's more than willing to help dust or put away clean dishes or carry up clean laundry. Her 3 year old brother? Completely unwilling to help. So I'm quite grateful that I have at least one capable helper.

I'm thankful for Santa. There is no greater tool we have as parents than "You know who's going to be really disappointed that you're fighting with your sister/didn't clean up the play room/woke up the baby? Santa." The entire month of December. (And November, let's be honest.)

I'm thankful for my dishwasher. Sooo many kids' cups/bowls/plastic spoons. All day, every day.

I'm thankful for Skyline. It's so bloody nice to have a go-to spot where I know no one will complain and everyone will leave happy. And while it's not steamed vegetables and grilled chicken, the plain spaghetti noodles with shredded cheese that they eat aren't exactly killing their diets. Plus they have an amazing fountain Pepsi. And also, CRACKERS. Which reminds me of something else I'm thankful for...

I'm thankful for restaurants that provide free snacks while you wait for your food. If you've ever dined with us before, you know that I come prepared with an arsenal of things to help my children pass the time in a restaurant. The fruit and veggies we bring are gone within 39 seconds of sitting down, leaving only whatever coloring books we brought to entertain them. When your 3-year-old asks "When is our food gonna get here?" before you've even ordered, snacks are mega helpful. And delicious. (Slatt's biscuits, I'm looking at you.)

I'm thankful that 2 of my 3 tiny humans are potty trained. And that I have yet to buy a pack of diapers since Jack has been born because we did such a good job stocking up during sales while I was pregnant. Boom.

I'm thankful for babies that can feed themselves. Because this giant baby of mine loves him some Puffs and he can finally shove them into his own little mouth at the frighteningly quick speed he prefers.

I'm thankful for my mini van. The love runs deep, y'all. Honda Odyssey driver for life.

I'm thankful for Swiffer wet cloths because I haven't had to get down on my hands and knees to mop my floor in years.

I'm thankful that I had 2 very positive parent-teacher conferences this month. We must be doing something right.

I'm thankful that kids' socks are pretty cheap. Joe has an incredible ability to lose socks. Last night's load of laundry had five unmatched boy socks in it. Five.

I'm thankful for my husband. This has been a very tough 7 months with 3 little friends demanding so very much of me, more than I'm capable of giving at times. And I'm often overwhelmed and stressed out and tired (duh). He doesn't always (cough usually cough) come home to a pleasant wife because I am just so over that day. But he sticks by me and lifts me up and sometimes even kicks me out of the house to get a break. (By the way, can I get an amen for Girls' Night? So lovely and necessary.) We just passed 6.5 years of wedded bliss & I appreciate him more every day.

I'm thankful that Jack wraps his little arms around my neck for hugs. And that Joe tells me that I'm his best friend. And that Brooke loves to watch and copy everything I am doing. No matter how crazy things get and how tough our days are, these three really are the best.
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